How to Powerfully Hold Space For Each Other

“Unfortunately, this will be our last performance for Carmen,” the conductor announced to our packed audience of over 1,000 people on March 10, 2020. 

We didn’t know how to react. Applause for the amazing opera performance we just saw? Or keep our mouths open in shock, as he shared that all large state-owned venues closed the next day due to the pandemic? Some guests coughed around me. I coughed too. Oh shit.

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How To Find A Coach Or Therapist That’s Right For You

Looking for a therapist or coach but don’t know where to start?

I was there too. Back in 2016 I was struggling with anxiety, Imposter Syndrome, and building a new business after leaving my corporate job.

I wanted to find some professional help. But I was overwhelmed. How to begin?

Luckily, I found a therapist and a coach that year. They both transformed my life.

Since then, I’ve worked with several therapists and coaches.

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Tips For Dealing With Grief – My Interview on “The Way We Connect” Podcast

The ones we love live on in us. ❤️ Knowing this has helped me immensely through my grief.

Are you on a grief journey too? There are often so many unanswered questions and it can be a confusing painful time.

Yet there are things I do know.

I know that in my darkest moments, my parents are comforting me, even though they have passed on.

I also know that in my happiest moments, their spirits come alive to celebrate with me.

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The Myth of The Hustle

What's your relationship to the word "Hustle?"

Me? I used to wear it like a badge of pride. "I'm a hustler!" I would proudly proclaim. And I worked through long ass hours living that coveted Silicon Valley life.

Then I burned out in corporate.

"Ok, no more of that!" I said. Then I started my own business and became a high-flying consultant. Literally. I was flying to different countries, working out of hotel rooms and airport lounges, proud of my so-called "freedom."

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Talking About Failures- On The “Seven Eighths” Podcast

Failures. Why don’t we talk more about them?

They’re so very human. Yet so many podcasts focus only on success.

That’s why I’m grateful that the incredible human Amrutha Ragavan has created a podcast on: Yup...FAILURES!

And I’m honored that I got to share my very vulnerable story of relationship failures and fears on “The Seven Eighths.”

I talk about how in 2016, I started working with both a coach AND a therapist on my fear of abandonment.

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Want More Gratitude & Happiness in Your Life? Here’s How

Dear Human,

Are you feeling a bit stressed? Unhappy? Not at your best? 

Then here's a game-changer for you: More gratitude. 

Did you know that gratitude is scientifically proven to improve your life? It's been studied extensively in positive psychology.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

According to a Forbes article by Amy Morin here are gratitude benefits:⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

  • Opens doors to relationships
  • Improves physical health
  • Improves psychological health
  • Enhances empathy and lowers aggression
  • Better sleep
  • Improves self esteem
  • Increases mental strength

Damnnnnnnn, that's pretty f*cking incredible right?

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Find Inner Peace By Living The Questions

With the current events and the uncertain mood of the world, some of you may be asking:

  • How can I find inner peace?
  • How do I quiet the constant inner chatter of my mind?

Other than meditation (which really does wonders), I thought about something I wrote years ago, that I want to share with you: 

I just want to live the questions. 

Rather than fret about the future, or try to find the answers for everything, I just want to relax and accept that I will never know all the answers.

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How to Set Better Boundaries in a Pandemic

For many of us, the days are starting to blur as our work and personal lives mesh together into a giant gray lump during this pandemic.

Suddenly we are glued to our screens now more than ever, find it hard to ignore work emails even late at night, feel guilty when we can’t spend enough quality time with our loved ones, and drown in the overwhelm of COVID-19 news. And oh yeah, exercise...what’s

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How to Say No Nicely

There are a lot of things going on in the world right now. And some of us may feel the pressure that we need to do more. More to help others, more in our careers, more in our families, more in our homes…cook more, clean more, post more, work out more, heck, even Netflix more!

A lot of different people are doing a lot of different things, but that doesn’t mean that YOU have to.…

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100 Real Human Lessons Begins!

Dear Humans, I’m overjoyed (and admittedly nervous) to announce that for the next 100 days, I’ll be sharing #100realhumanlessons with you! 

As some of you may know, my biggest dream is to publish a memoir. I started writing it last year, but took a break because it was too painful for me then to revisit the death of my parents. At the same time, I wasn’t clear enough on my Why. 

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